Trails for Couples

#002: a digital deck of 72 topics to help couples bring up what matters
FREE

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Trails for Couples is a free digital topic pack designed to use with Disagree Differently.

It’s not always easy to know how to bring something up with your partner or even what to bring up in the first place.

Most couples don’t avoid conversations because they don’t care. It’s because they care so much.

Trails for Couples gives you a gentle way to start. Because honesty shouldn’t feel dangerous.

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👥 Born from real couples wanting to feel closer
🫶🏼 Re-written to feel gentle, curious, and safe
🌄 72 trails total: 36 silly, 36 serious

• Overview

  A free digital deck of 72 conversation topics to help you feel closer, one gentle trail at a time.

  • 36 silly topics — light, playful prompts for fun date nights

  • 36 serious topics — grounded in what real couples say they wish they could talk about

• How to Play

  Designed as a companion to Disagree Differently.

  1. Open Disagree Differently

  2. Reach the “Choose Your Topic” step

  3. Open Trails for Couples (PDF)

  4. Pick a trail:

     • Feeling playful or warming up?
       → Pick from the Silly trails

     • Feeling ready to go deeper?
       → Pick from the Serious trails

  5. Disagree Differently guides you the rest of the way

• Designed with Purpose™

  These topics were shaped through:

  • Anonymous input from couples sharing what they want to talk about to feel closer

  • Online relationship research (including spaces like r/relationships, r/Marriage, r/AmItheButtface, etc.)

  • Careful rewriting to make each topic feel:

    • less intimidating

    • easier to approach

    • clearer to talk about

    • more like an invitation than a confrontation

  Think of them as gentle handlebars for conversations that often feel too slippery or high-stakes to start.